• Story time

    Mirror, mirror, on the wall

    “Meet me at the park in twenty minutes.” My heart skipped every single time he would text this to me. The thrill of sneaking out of my office, meeting up with him, and disappearing to our secret spot to participate in my very favorite nonsexual physical activity, making out, was always a welcome surprise. It always had to be on his terms, because, well he was a busy man. Both with his respectable career and with his longtime girlfriend. So, when he could get a few free minutes in his day I happily obliged in filling that time. (I know, I know… trust me, there is nothing that you could…

  • Story time

    To myself, I promise.

    The sound of my alarm clock played loudly in my ear as I blindly searched, slapping my bed sporadically hoping to hit my phone with my hand.With my free hand, I rubbed my still closed eyes, trying to massage them back to life.I blinked once.Twice.Three times, before I rolled over and scanned my immediate area, snatching the phone up, hitting snooze, and closing my eyes once more. As I lay there trying to will myself back to sleep God blessed me with reminders of the dream my alarm so rudely pulled me out of. I was on a hilltop in a beautiful white lace-trimmed skirt. Hair blowing in the wind,…

  • self-love
    Today I affirm

    Five ways to start loving yourself more TODAY.

    “Great… I fucked it up…. aggggain.” How did you feel when you read that? Did it make you all warm and fuzzy inside? Give you the confidence to pick your head up and keep it moving? Make you want to try whatever “IT” is again” Yea…. Probably not. But….. Does it sound familiar? Take a couple of minutes to hold yourself accountable for how you speak to yourself. Honestly, how many times during the day do we say things like this to ourselves? Too many to count, right? Now, would you look your best friend in the eye and say to her “Great… You fucked it up… agggain” Chances are…

  • Today I affirm

    Yellow

    I Today affirm that I am in love with being YELLOW!! I have never been a subscriber to coincidence. Even as a child I knew that everything happened with purpose, usually had no idea what the purpose was, but always had to find and keep the faith that there was a reason for it. As an adult, I KNOW without a doubt that every person that is placed in my path is placed there for a reason. The woman that I wanted to yank from the front seat of her car after she flipped me off before cutting me off at the intersection and speeding through the red light… The…